Today I blog about a man. For security and legal reasons, let's call him X.
I met X last year just before the beginning of May, actually I met him on 30th April. I had seen him before in our hood like 10 years ago because he is friends with my neighbours but then I never used to talk to them.
Now, when I met X, I never thought I'd like him but along the way I really ended up liking him. For the one year we knew each other, we never really defined our friendship/relationship.
For one year I have been in an emotionally abusive relationship. Abusive here meaning, uncertainty and loose love. Loose love here meaning, I was not the only woman in this friendship/relationship. It's like he was trying to prove to the world how he can juggle different women at the same time.
When I fell for him, my world literally stopped for him but unfortunately, his never did for me.
I did EVERYTHING a good friend and possible girlfriend would do. I should have known his love was fake when #British was in hospital and he never once entered her room to see her. He never even bought her fruits. A future husband? I dourrrit!
I have had my doubts and now they were all confirmed just in the nick of time.
I met his former girlfriend and I can tell you she's AN ANGEL...pretty hot too ;)
She went through what I went through with X but hers was worse. HWAAAAT! X is really a piece of work.
For the past 4 months, he has been in this friendship/relationship on his own. He should know I moved on and I am no longer answerable to him. I was faithful to him and he was not to me so I don't even think we can ever ever even be friends.
I always say if I was a man and I LIKED this girl, HELL, I WOULD MOVE HEAVEN AND EARTH FOR HER!!! Treat her like a she's the only woman who lives in my world. I would buy expensive things for her, because she deserves it. I would be honest with her because my heart belongs to her. I would make sure, with all the love God has shown and given me, I would love her with MY ALL!
X did not and does not show any sign of ever doing that to me. I’ve been carrying unnecessary emotional buggage for someone who claims to care but does not.
So X, if you are reading this. Take time out and think about what it is you are doing with your life and if you ever find ‘the one’, MOVE HEAVEN AND HELL FOR HER!!!
#ThatIsAll
I met X last year just before the beginning of May, actually I met him on 30th April. I had seen him before in our hood like 10 years ago because he is friends with my neighbours but then I never used to talk to them.
Now, when I met X, I never thought I'd like him but along the way I really ended up liking him. For the one year we knew each other, we never really defined our friendship/relationship.
For one year I have been in an emotionally abusive relationship. Abusive here meaning, uncertainty and loose love. Loose love here meaning, I was not the only woman in this friendship/relationship. It's like he was trying to prove to the world how he can juggle different women at the same time.
When I fell for him, my world literally stopped for him but unfortunately, his never did for me.
I did EVERYTHING a good friend and possible girlfriend would do. I should have known his love was fake when #British was in hospital and he never once entered her room to see her. He never even bought her fruits. A future husband? I dourrrit!
I have had my doubts and now they were all confirmed just in the nick of time.
I met his former girlfriend and I can tell you she's AN ANGEL...pretty hot too ;)
She went through what I went through with X but hers was worse. HWAAAAT! X is really a piece of work.
For the past 4 months, he has been in this friendship/relationship on his own. He should know I moved on and I am no longer answerable to him. I was faithful to him and he was not to me so I don't even think we can ever ever even be friends.
I always say if I was a man and I LIKED this girl, HELL, I WOULD MOVE HEAVEN AND EARTH FOR HER!!! Treat her like a she's the only woman who lives in my world. I would buy expensive things for her, because she deserves it. I would be honest with her because my heart belongs to her. I would make sure, with all the love God has shown and given me, I would love her with MY ALL!
X did not and does not show any sign of ever doing that to me. I’ve been carrying unnecessary emotional buggage for someone who claims to care but does not.
So X, if you are reading this. Take time out and think about what it is you are doing with your life and if you ever find ‘the one’, MOVE HEAVEN AND HELL FOR HER!!!
#ThatIsAll