I was recently interviewed by MoneyAcademy.co.ke after one of the writers read my blog and asked me to share my story of taking care of an elderly person (my mother) without any health insurance. So I kinda just edited the interview and added a few things here and there. The writer is Brenda Wambui. All credits to her, Saiton and the whole MoneyAcademy.co.ke who have agreed for me to use their article. The article will be uploaded today and I’m sure it’s well packaged more than what you’re about to read.

I am is the last born in a family of 4 siblings and I have been taking care of my mother since her health started failing.

My mother, British, is 70 years old, and has faced a number of health problems. She has severe arthritis; she has kidney problems and has suffered two strokes. She has also had her right leg amputated twice and now she is due for ankle replacement surgery…again.

British’s problems began in 2000, when she had to have a knee replacement surgery due to arthritis. Luckily, it was sponsored by American doctors, so my family did not feel the financial strain. Later on, in 2002, she had to have an ankle replacement surgery, yet again as a result of the arthritis. This set my family and I back by Sh. 120,000. My siblings and I pulled together to raise the money.

In 2008, British had her leg amputated because of gangrene. At this time, I was out of the country, as were the rest of my siblings. This cost Sh. 150,000. Unfortunately, the doctor did a rush job and wound opened leading to the leg getting infected and this lead to a second amputation. This cost usy Sh. 80,000. Fortunately, though, it was final.

In January 2010, she suffered a stroke due to hypertension, but she completely recovered from it. A year later, in January 2011, she suffered a second stroke, which was more severe than the first one.

My family and I have shouldered the impact of our mother’s illness, financial and otherwise. No health insurance firm is willing to insure British due to her age and her health status. As a result, we resorted to paying NHIF contributions so as to cater for her health needs. The contribution is Sh. 160 a month, and we have made these contributions 10 times in the past year. This has helped us a great deal!

British also visits the doctor once a month because of her kidney problems. This costs us Sh. 2,000 a visit and Ksh. 3,000 for tests to be done. The medicine she takes costs us anything from Sh. 5,000 to Sh. 10,000 a month.

British’s ankle surgery was also not successful, leading to frequent intense pain due to friction in the ankle replacement. British often wakes up screaming and crying because the ‘screw’s that were inserted on her ankle have all disjointed due to limited movement of the limb. The surgery she is due for will remove the screws and she will have an implant which will hold the bones together. It’s a pretty sensitive surgery.


We had to hire 2 homecare nurses and a helper to give British round the clock care. This costs us Sh. 80,000 a month. We have also had to work with a nutritionist who is also another expense but has helped my Mum a great deal by putting together an amazing diet that has seen Mum’s kidney’s and health general improve.

British is a very funny person and for those who have met her can testify her ever positive attitude and zany personality, but at times all these issues weigh the both of us down. British recently lost one of her best friends, and this has dampened her disposition as she feels like she is alone and that she may be next.

After talking to the surgeon, the total cost of the surgery amount to almost Ksh. 500, 000.

God has given me such peace and I know we will raise this amount…somehow! Big up to my Twitter and Facebook friends who are doing such an amazing fundraising job…we are forever indebted!

Mpesa - 0722 325 614  Zap - 0738 503 339

 


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Rere
04/05/2011 12:00am

Chica as always you inspire me !let me just encourage you i have had to undergo 3 surgeries on my left leg after i suffered a severe fracture after an accident.i am a living testament of Gods healing power after 3years of pain and agony and hours of physiotherapy i am fully recovered and on my way to regaining full muscle strength..so do not fret..the Lord hears our prayers and will be there to hold your hand throughout this process..in the meantime as part of your twitter family we will fund raise as much as we can..much love and peace..God bless.xo

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01/05/2012 9:29pm

Again the great information about the surgery. Thats a great way to reduce the fat.

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05/06/2012 4:37am

Its been wow reading your article. I would like to jump on this site again.This information is excellent, as share good stuff with good concept

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04/05/2011 12:09am

You and your family are heroes to me...having taken care of her all through that!!!! British will go in for surgery...and it will go through mzuri this time...you have my support...kindly include mpesa,zap numbers? How. .Where can someone send in a little something?

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04/05/2011 12:16am

Got the MPesa #, but pls edit the post to include all the money receiving details, so that users can find it here.
Thanks

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lazizi
04/05/2011 12:21am

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04/05/2011 12:27am

Pole about your mum Ng'endo.
Hopefully you will be able to raise enough funds for the required medical attention.
Medical bills strain families. I have experienced this. Any help you could get I'm sure will go a long way.
Like akenyangirl says, please put up a number on here for anyone who can't get it otherwise.
You will be in my prayers...

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EdGicovi
04/05/2011 12:32am

Hi Ng'endo. My payers for comfort,strength,and providence go out to you and your fam. Will contribute whatever I can. You're a strong girl. Glad to be of help. :)

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04/05/2011 12:46am

I admire you strength and the love you have for British. I have reposted this on my blog as my little way of helping out.
May God's favour be upon you and your family for the good service you have accorded your mum.

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04/05/2011 1:05am

Ng'endo, we can, and we will do this. What are twiends for?
I'll be praying for your mom, and hope that this is the beginning of wellness for her.
xoxo

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04/05/2011 1:16am

Hey Ng'endo! Just seen this, I like how you've edited it. :) You will be in my prayers, and I will contribute what I can.Keep up the strength and positive attitude, it is amazing.

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yvon mwende
04/05/2011 1:18am

Ngesh we are praying with you for mum.my fam and i will support you guys all the way.tumetoka mbali na tunaenda mbali......God is in control.

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04/05/2011 1:54am

With you in prayer

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Mo Sande
04/05/2011 2:07am

Ng'endo, you and your siblings are wonderful for standing by your mother the way that you have through the years. In this time of need, your friends stand wit you too. It will be well.

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julietwambui
04/05/2011 2:25am

Ng'endo, all will be well. My prayers are with you and your family. Be blessed.

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Jane
04/05/2011 2:40am

Hi Ng'endo, it is quite inspiring the trials you have faced and continue to face and yet are still strong,...my thoughts...have you thought of a fundraising event,it could be a fun day,or auction..get creative etc....in which tweeps get involved, I don't know just trying to help in my own small way, but I think in addition to the mpesa and zap contributions an event say on a sunday afternoon would go a long way into helping raise the cash.

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Ras Mengesha
04/05/2011 3:06am

hey praying for British...and you.

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NJEEWY
04/05/2011 3:08am

Mresh,

God is able to do much more than we may ever think He would.By His stripes British Was healed.

Therfore thus pajamo kama twice :)kwa hiyo maneno it is well :)

mpesazap pap!

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Kandutsie
04/05/2011 3:11am

I have read your blog and i think your mom inspires not only you but also others who go through your blog.
It would indeed be an honour to be part of this!!!
'With long life... you will satisfy me..(British)'
it shall be well..:)

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Morris
04/05/2011 3:56am

keep the faith, God is still in the business of performing miracles...

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Ng'endo
04/05/2011 4:04am

Thank you guys for everything! I didn't know the response would be this amazing. I will try explain to British what Twitter is and who Tweeps are :) Thank you...xoxo

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idaempress
04/05/2011 4:16am

Mama will get through this very well.God is in control.With you in prayers will send a lil something.

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04/05/2011 4:45am

just read your story...... you are an amazing young girl......mama will get well.....praying for your family.

Isaiah 53:4-5
Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted.
But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.

she will be healed.


Amen .


She will be healed........i believe .

will send u something .

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Nashipaic
04/05/2011 4:55am

Mark 11:24 "Therefore I say to you whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them." We have faith that your will get through this.

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DivaJune
04/05/2011 5:09am

You Ngesh have been a great person and Indeed British raised a great lady as you.Will send the mulla by COB.All the best and love u loads.

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04/05/2011 5:23am

Real pole for this ordeal..Indeed you will pull through as a family..let her resilience drive you..my prayers are with you.

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Kasination
04/05/2011 5:27am

As always mama, you will never walk alone!! AM here however you need me.. :D

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04/05/2011 5:41am

pole. Prayers with you

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Carol Gatura
04/05/2011 5:44am

Ng'endo, I'm with you on this one. May the Lord heal and restore your mum..and He will, seeing the tremendous number of followers on twitter. I will mpesa as soon as I get to an agent :)

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04/05/2011 5:57am

Huyu manze yuko juu...not you Ngendo, i mean your mum. She'll be well. God always has us covered.

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04/05/2011 6:34am

let's do this the #1pchabanahaba style.

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Kinoti_Jr
04/05/2011 6:42am

my prayers are with you and your family

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04/05/2011 6:45am

With you in prayer and material support. Why lie, i've never met you...just tweet buddies, but I stand with you on this one. Mungu yupo, seen the outcome?! Yerp, it's all God's doing! British's gona get through this!

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04/05/2011 6:57am

So sorry hun, prayers for British! I will contact you about my contribution. I am with all all the way!

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lkamau
04/05/2011 7:04am

Inspired and all I can say is "All is well with British", and you have my ful support.

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vanderwangwe
04/05/2011 7:31am

for a noble cause may your mum get well soon I've spread the word n I'm with you in prayer may we reach the set target.

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Kevin Maina
04/05/2011 8:11am

May the almighty God give Brit the strength she so much needs to overcome this. May God concurrently give you the patience and wisdom to witness his Power and the will to testify!

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Muts
04/05/2011 8:36am

Niko nawe kwenye maombi. God hajafunga macho

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toadie
04/05/2011 9:08am

wacha i look for an agent now now

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LaylaLestrange
04/05/2011 9:37am

My dear I'm so moved by your story. I can't say I know how you feel but I've also watched my parent suffer in pain....I will contribute and spread the word...BELIEVE

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04/05/2011 10:05am

Been busy all day helping people find fuel in between spreadsheets, didn't see this.

My prayers are with you and your family. You will get through this!

I'm willing to help in any way I can

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Remember the story of Job. That same GOD is your GOD is your GOD too.JO
04/05/2011 10:42am

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Jaydabliu
04/05/2011 11:29am

Just no we're with you all the way and God is goin to see this through...you're an inspiration and for all it's worth, your mum is guilty of bringing people together in such trying times! God blessher and bless you! All will be well!

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Wahura
04/05/2011 11:32am

We'll keep this going. God's brought you this far this fast to show you and assure you that He'll take you all the way. We won't relent. God's blessings to you and your family and may there be an abundance of healing, love, peace, resources, friends, comfort and all nice things around.

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Rose Karanja
04/05/2011 12:41pm

God is able to just what He say's He will do... Don't give up on God coz He won't give up on you. He's able!

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04/05/2011 9:39pm

God is great, the Almighty, the all knowing and the most powerful - May His blessings shower upon you and Your Mum. You all are in our prayers...

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Masha
04/05/2011 9:44pm

Baraka ni kwa wale wana roho poa, na we huko nyuma hii story. Mresh, nyi wote mumebarikiwa. vyovyote vile. One love.

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Macharia Maina
04/05/2011 9:46pm

Only God is infinitely able to provide love and healing, we're only cogs in this engine and happy to be used by Him. Baraka zote.

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04/05/2011 9:46pm

I love tweeps! :-)

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nyakeruw
04/05/2011 10:24pm

I've drawn inspiration from your blog Ng'endo many a times. And for a girl whose life thus far is by God's grace, I trust He will heal your Mum.

All we have to do is trust Him. How could we possibly do less and it's through His breathe we live.

Will send my contribution by the end of the day.

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05/05/2011 1:47am

I will be in prayers and would make it a point to support in whatever way i can!!!

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05/05/2011 1:55am

Be strong and of good courage for the Lord thy God is with you. Be not a fraid neither be thou dismayed! Am in Cape Town- give a number where I can organize for yu to be M-Pesad my contribution! Love to British frm Cape Town!

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05/05/2011 2:33am

Sorry about your Mum. Despite all this she seems such a strong woman! All will be well.

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05/05/2011 5:25am

I admire your strength and courage Ng'endo. Having shared a similar fate a coupla years ago, I know how distressing it gets, but I believe things will work out for you. Go #TeamBritish!

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lechaki
05/05/2011 12:14pm

With you all the way,,,, If you need any More help... holla

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06/05/2011 3:44am

When God sends us on strong paths, He gives us strong shoes. He's got it!

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Mukami
06/05/2011 6:50am

U are awesme, wonderful and already very blessd. U're an inspiration kabisa... God Bless U!

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JMukami
06/05/2011 6:53am

U are awesme, wonderful and already very blessd. U're an inspiration kabisa...Mum will get better,just believe and we'll pray wth u!God Bless U!

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kabugowangugi
08/05/2011 10:12pm

Am in love with your right attitude toward the problem in your family. Am also in love with your positive thoughts, truly you discovered the "secret". Your mother will be okay through Gods grace. God bless you God bless your family.

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sree quata
10/05/2011 7:21am

Aunt Nitendo!
It shall be well, luv you

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